There
were beer vending machines in frat houses, cigarette advertisements
in university newspapers and it was one death that pushed a
tradition to extinction at Ryerson.
On Jan. 23, 1965, Ryerson student Thomas Dasovich was one of 18
contestants in a inter-fraternity beer drinking contest between
three unofficial Ryerson frats.
After the competition was over, 320-pound Dasovich insisted on
driving himself home. He drove through nearby Allan Gardens and was
struck by another car as he drove onto Gerrard St. E., just a few
blocks from Ryerson. He died when his car was thrown in the path of
another oncoming vehicle.
He was 26 years old.
At the time of his death, Ryerson’s 3,000 students could choose
from five fraternities. Today, Ryerson is home to 21,000 full-time
students and just one fraternity, Alpha Epsilon Pi (AEPi).
Ryerson distanced itself from frats after Dasovich’s death. Today,
fraternities aren’t officially recognized and can’t advertise on
campus.
“It’s hard to find people. Now we are looking for the majority
to be from (the University of Toronto),” said Richard Scholten, a
Ryerson student and president of U of T’s 82-year-old Delta
Epsilon frat.
Delta Epsilon’s advertising was limited this year to participating
in Ryerson’s Parade and Picnic. They wore their letters and handed
out fliers. At Ryerson, AEPi has the same problem.
“The only way you can know AEPi exists is by word of mouth,”
said chapter president Robert Ostfield.
Ryerson President Sheldon Levy said he’d consider an inclusive
fraternity if a group of students came forward with such a proposal.
The Ryerson Students’ Union, which licenses the dozens of student
groups on campus, refuses to recognize frats.
“Fraternities and sororities are gender exclusive and this does
not fit with the RSU’s view of clubs … clubs are open to all
students, regardless of differences” said Leatrice O’Neill,
campus groups administrator. The RSU isn’t alone in its
skepticism.
Peggy Sanday, anthropologist and author of Fraternity Gang Rape:
Sex, Brotherhood, and Privilege on Campus, agreed that universities
should be critical in deciding whether to associate themselves with
such groups. She said fraternities and sororities promote sexist and
regressive cultural norms
“Recognizing fraternities means to recognize the gender polarities
they support: males are expected to be aggressive, promiscuous, and
intensely competitive in demonstrating success with women. Women are
expected to be pliant, nurturing, and relational, yet also
‘ho’s’ in the service of men.
“It is the classic example of the ‘old boys network,’”
Sanday said. The U of T also had its problem with frats. In
1959, Barbara Arrington, a black honours psychology student, was
told to drop her membership bid from three sororities to avoid
embarrassment.
After the ensuing racial debate, the U of T disassociated itself
from fraternities and sororities. They were previously unrecognized,
but each lost, among other things, use of the school’s letterhead
and a discount in the campus press.
Forty years later, both Ryerson and the U of T haven’t changed
their minds. AEPi’s Ostfield said it’s frustrating working
against the stigma universities and authors, such as Sanday, hold.
“We are not out to hurt anyone and not out to get anything.
Canadian universities look at fraternities with a negative
connotation…they don’t understand what we’re trying to do.”
Most fraternities and sororities are certified charitable
institutions. AEPi supports Mickey, a network that trains people to
use defibrillators. Delta Epsilon supports Casey House, an HIV
hospice and community program. Canadian frats traditionally
charge yearly membership fees ranging from $400 to $1000—
something that also prevents them from being sanctioned by the RSU.
Fees cover formals and semi-formals, philanthropic fundraising
events and insurance costs. It’s a great experience for anyone who
wants to be involved, said U of T sorority member
Sarah O’Neil.
“We want everyone. I’ve made so many friends,” she said.
At the U of T, fraternities advertise under the umbrella of a larger
student group, the Fraternity and Sorority Life Club.
“U of T can’t touch us with a
10-foot pole,” said Eitan Pinsky, member of Delta Kappa Epsilon
and the president of the Fraternity and Sorority Life Club; the
student group attended club day to recruit pledges for all the
frats, something Ryerson frats can’t do.
Pinsky attributed Ryerson’s lack of frats and sororities to its
polytechnic background and downtown location — no frat house means
no frat.
In the rest of Canada there is a bit of a different approach to
recognizing the frat community.
At the University of Alberta, all fraternities are recognized on a
one-on-one basis by the university. However, they can only remain
members of the school’s interfraternity council (a student group)
if they uphold certain guidelines.
“The reason (universities) stay away from being associated is
really nothing more than a lack of knowledge about what frats do. I
think if people did a better job explaining, schools would be more
willing to accept them,” said Chris Samuels, former
inter-fraternity council president and current ombudsman at the U of
A.
“With any student group, there is a potential to discriminate, to
do something bad or have something go wrong,” Samuels added.
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west, the University of British Columbia has yet another policy.
Each fraternity has a representative on an inter-fraternity council.
Each of the nine frat houses are owned by the individual fraternity
but built on university land, leased from the school for just $1
over 99 years. Only fraternities that possess charters from their
international organization are recognized.
“The whole point of a fraternity is to maintain a student
organization that provides support for its members. Without a strong
tie to a school, a fraternity is nothing. We’re much more than
just a social group,” said Ben Graham, president of UBC Alpha
Delta Phi fraternity,
“We couldn’t exist without UBC.”
Ryerson fraternities are struggling without similar suport.
Administrators and students’ unions need to see the overall good
the Greek system can bring to a campus, Samuels said.
“One out of a thousand times something bad happens and it’s that
one time that really kills us.”